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If you don't have one yourself, it can be quite confronting. Even if you're a guy and it's your first time getting one in your mouth, it can be daunting. It's not as if you've been able to suck your own!? If you can, get in touch. We want to talk to you Questions can fill your mind, 'Am I doing this right? Did I just use my teeth? What if it tastes gross?! We've spoken to a couple of the most qualified professionals out there on how you can get yourself comfortable and actually enjoy it. Here's what sex therapist Jacqueline Hellyer and Isla Viewwho teaches the 'Art of Fellatio' workshop, had to say when they were on the show.
But Jacqueline says that if you're doing a blowjob because you think you have to, then it's not going to be pleasurable for you Want to blow someone them. The receiver of the blowjob always loves it when the partner is enjoying themselves," she told The Hook Up. If you're 'in your head' thinking about whether you're doing it right, there is no way you're relaxing, and you're probably not enjoying it. Then if you're not, they probably aren't either. Think of it as a blowjob domino effect of no pleasure.
It will also change the type of pleasure the other person receives. Isla even suggests putting some music on: "Blowjobs are really rhythmical," she says. It really engages you and grounds you, instead of you thinking 'am I doing this right? OMG, my jaw is starting to hurt!
Isla suggests you could find yourself in a position where you're pleasuring yourself while pleasuring your partner. There are other parts of people's anatomy you can enjoy, like balls or ass. It doesn't just have to be your mouth on penis.
Jacqueline also suggests using your hands on the shaft of the penis, so your mouth isn't doing ALL the work. If you've got other skills, use 'em. But if you've decided not to, then Jacqueline has this tip for you: "Make sure the penis is at the back of the tongue, because most of your taste buds are at the front of your tongue.
That way it goes straight down into the digestive tract that is very tough on germs.
Further, avoid brushing your teeth beforehand as that can expose the gums or cause bleeding, which can increase the chance of HIV transmission if they cum in your mouth. If you're unsure of your partner's HIV status, it's probably best to avoid someone cumming in your mouth at all, especially if you have cuts or ulcers in your mouth or throat.
These are hotspots for HIV transmission. There are plenty of other places they can blow their load, so get creative! This is particularly relevant for men who have sex with men. You'll probably get an idea from him if they're liking it or not. If there's moaning or saying, "ohhh yeahhhhh", that's probably a good indication that they're enjoying it. Plus, that can be a mega turn on for you, too! But whether they're saying something or not, it's always a good idea to check in and ask if they like what you're doing.
Everyone different; some people might not like it as fast or with as much suction, for example. All Programs People Schedule. A beginner's guide to blowies By James Findlay. Thursday 6 July pm. Share Facebook Twitter Mail Whatsapp.
First of all, you've got to be in the mood! Get out of your head and relax. Maybe use your hands? If you've got other skills, use 'em ; The age old question: is it spits or swallows? Still don't think you're doing it right?
As Isla says, "ask what works for [them] so you're both enjoying it more" So there you go. Happy sucking! More Stories.
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